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“He dances so off-beat.”
“He doesn’t hear the phrasing!”
“I just can’t dance with him if he’s always out of sync with the music!”
Followers often complain about the musicality of leaders – and yes, sometimes they’re right.
But let’s be honest: many followers don’t really know what musical dancing actually means either.
Or how much they themselves can contribute to musicality – even when the leader isn’t exactly ‘listening’.
Spoiler:
Dancing on the beat isn’t enough.
And stopping when the music stops isn’t exactly a sign of great timing either.
It’s shocking how many tango dancers treat music as nothing more than background ambiance.
Sometimes it feels like it’s only about combinations:
Another pulpo. Another back sacada. Another fancy step seen in a Facebook video.
As if followers were saying:
“Oh yes, I love dancing with him, he always does these complicated steps I don’t understand.”
You get the idea...
No one says that.
And in the end, many dancers glide right over entire musical phrases —
as if they were deaf to the structure of the music —
just to show off what they (think they) know.
Dear Leader:
If you think you’re impressing your follower with a thousand combinations – here’s a tough truth:
Most followers will love it much more when you dance a few simple steps –
but with feeling and musicality.
Because what’s the point of a back sacada if:
the connection is lost,
she’s afraid of being stepped on,
or actually gets hurt?
A clean side step with a musical pause is far more tango than a risky sequence that ruins the embrace.
And you’ll be surprised how much more your partner opens up when you give her space to breathe.
Dear followers:
You have way more influence on the music than you might think.
Musicality is not a monologue by the leader.
If you:
...then you’re also killing the musical dialogue.
Instead:
→ Feel your own body and what the music stirs in it
→ Give yourself time – you don’t need to follow like a military drill
→ Play with the music, listen, embellish (check out the Adorno Special Bundle)
→ Execute what’s led with rhythm and logic – not “whenever”
Being musical in tango doesn’t mean stepping on every beat like a metronome.
It also doesn’t mean always starting a sequence at the beginning of a phrase that lasts exactly eight counts.
Musicality means interpreting the music – with whatever you choose to do.
A musical dance includes:
If you don’t naturally “have” musicality – no stress.
You can learn it.
You can hear it, feel it, express it – in your own way.
With your body. With your style. With your personality.
And I can show you how.
3 Private Lessons – 1 Topic: Musicality in Tango
If you want to do more than just execute steps —
if you want to really dance —
then my Musicality Bootcamp is just for you.
Whether you’re a leader or follower.
Whether you’re a musical gourmet or don’t know where to start.
If you want to stop just “doing” tango and start dancing —
this is your moment.
We’ll work on:
How musicality improves your communication in the couple – and how you can express it, too
Also as online lessons available!
📩 Send me a message and let’s get started.
Let’s listen together.
And then… let’s dance.